Helping Couples Reignite Intimacy When Desire Doesn’t Match

Many loving couples face the painful reality of mismatched desire. One partner may want sex frequently, while the other feels less interested — leading to confusion, frustration, and feelings of rejection. You might say things like:

  • “I used to feel more turned on, but now I don’t want sex as much.”

  • “I want that spark back, but it feels impossible.”

  • “I’m worried my partner isn’t attracted to me anymore.”

If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone — and therapy can help you reconnect, understand each other better, and find a path forward that honors both of your needs.

How I help:

In therapy, we explore the emotional, physical, and relational factors that impact desire. My approach is warm, non-judgmental, and tailored to your unique relationship. Together, we’ll:

  • Unpack underlying feelings and insecurities

  • Learn communication tools that build safety and trust

  • Explore ways to reconnect physically without pressure

  • Reignite emotional intimacy that fuels desire

Therapy is about partnership — your goals guide our work, and my job is to support your journey toward feeling closer and more satisfied together.

Common Questions:

Is mismatched desire normal?
Yes, it’s common and nothing to be ashamed of. Desire fluctuates over time for many reasons.

Will therapy make us have more sex?
Therapy helps you understand and navigate desire differences, which often leads to more satisfying intimacy — but it’s about connection, not just frequency.

What if one partner doesn’t want therapy?
I can help you explore your concerns individually and find the best way forward for you and your relationship.

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