Support for Men Navigating Erectile Issues, Orgasm Struggles, and Performance Anxiety

You might be wondering:

  • “Why do I lose my erection during sex, but not when I’m alone?”

  • “Why can I orgasm when I masturbate, but not with my partner?”

  • “What’s wrong with me — and can I fix it?”

If you're struggling with erection problems (ED), orgasm difficulties, or anxiety about your sexual performance, you're not alone. These issues are more common than you think, and they don't mean you're broken or inadequate. In fact, they often have more to do with pressure, stress, or unspoken emotions than with your body itself.

How I help:

Sexual concerns can feel isolating — especially when there’s shame or fear involved. My work with men is collaborative, judgment-free, and grounded in the belief that pleasure and intimacy are worth reclaiming. Together, we can:

  • Explore the roots of performance anxiety, arousal disconnect, or changes in libido

  • Talk openly about shame, expectations, and pressure

  • Rebuild confidence in your body and in intimacy

  • Find tools and insights to support lasting sexual connection

Whether you're single, partnered, or unsure how to talk about this with someone you love, therapy is a space where you can be honest, curious, and supported.

Common Questions:

Is this a medical issue?
Sometimes. I can help you figure out whether a referral to a medical provider makes sense — and we can also work through the emotional, psychological, or relational aspects that may be contributing.

Will we talk about sex directly?
Yes — but always at your pace, with full respect for your boundaries. You’re in control.

Will I have to talk about my past?
Only if and when it feels helpful. Some clients want to understand how early messages about masculinity or sex are impacting them now. Others want tools for the present. Either way, we’ll work with your goals.

Should I do individual or couples therapy for my ED?

Both formats can be very helpful. We can always start one way and evolve if necessary.

Ready to feel more in control and sexually confident? Submit the form below and I’ll be in touch.